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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>Drape's Takes - Latest Comments in The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.disqus.com/</link><description></description><atom:link href="https://drapestakes.disqus.com/the_possible_price_of_being_a_student_20/latest.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2008 04:42:09 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-974421</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Having read through the long list of comments here and over at Newly Ancient and spent some time pondering the situation, I think that the only thing that I can say is that adults and youth are not peers, nor should they be. Engaging students in discussions can indeed provide some incredible insight but there are greater forces at play which the adults must be aware. As a parent of 7 children, I would not want my child, no matter how intelligent, to be in a situation in which they were not emotionally ready to partake. Bad day or not, this was not a good situation for any youth. &lt;br&gt;As educators, we do need to listen to the voice of the students and hear what they have to say but, it also goes the other way and, lately, the street is becoming much more one-way without understanding that, as adults, educators are under obligations that youth do not have. It is a very slippery slope - having been down it a few times with teachers, it isn't one I suggest anyone venture onto. &lt;br&gt;Arthur is not an adult and should not be held to the same standards regardless of what he may wish. Youth is the time to make mistakes, that's what we hope will happen so that learning can take place. From what I've read at Newly Ancient, that has taken place. However much Arthur may wish to be seen as a peer online, he isn't. That may be why I did not venture into the discussions with him. As much as he may desire to be a peer, and criticize people who won't see him in that light, he is not my peer nor would I treat him as such. First of all, he's just starting to experience the world, with all it's beauty and ugliness while I'm nearing halfway (maybe?).  He is intelligent, of that there is no doubt, but to lift him up to peer status really does him a huge disservice and robs him, yes, takes away, that time where so many of life's lessons are to be learned. &lt;br&gt;In the end, I find this to be sad. No matter how stimulating or insightful or refreshing or .... the adults found his conversation, to blur the lines between adulthood and youth, as was done in this case, should not happen. I'm thinking that this will probably draw the ire from some but, regardless of what this youth wanted, the adults had the responsibility to be adults despite the desire or apparent maturity of the youth. I hope this short history doesn't repeat itself.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Kelly Christopherson</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2008 04:42:09 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-926034</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Although I was not involved in the above conversation in question in any way, I can say that one of the people involved has on more than one occasion been very nasty and bitten my head off online in the past. Said person shall remain unnamed. I had no idea how I could have provoked such a vehement response at that time and I literally felt body-slammed afterward.  I just avoid any interaction with them now whenever possible.  I guess I'm not feeling very sympathetic.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;No one asks for or deserves to be raked over the coals, but some people have a gift for sounding arrogant and argumentative online and therefore they rile things up.   I sincerely hope they don't actually endeavor to sound superior, tactless, and condescending.  I don't but I might.  I'm just saying.   That's my 1/2 cent worth.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Member of the Edublogosphere</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 17:21:05 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-878117</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Said by you, in regard to my action in removing the screen-shots:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;gt; Frankly, I do not think editing out the photos improved the situation. Instead, it leaves a comment thread (and follow-up posts) filled with some rather harsh resentment and responses. (This doesn’t apply to all involved). With the context removed, the situation seems far worse than it really was. My rule for the web: once it’s up, it’s got to stay up.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have decided to remove the screen-shots for several reasons:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;1. If somebody displayed my kid's mistakes, in a public forum, online - I would be mad - or sad - or embarrassed - or all three.  Therefore, I removed them as much for your parents as for you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;2. I think this post *now* has the same meaning without the shots as it would with them. You needed to see the shots to see what your actions meant to others.  Others needed to see the shots to understand the context behind my message.  Now that both have been achieved, the screen-shots themselves are now less important.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;3. An archive of the "conversation" (head nod, Will) still exists as I have left the original Twitter conversation favorited on my Twitter account. Therefore, if people would like to view the original conversation (as it currently exists), they may &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/ddraper/favourites" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://twitter.com/ddraper/favourites"&gt;view the tweets here&lt;/a&gt;.  This places the responsibility of displaying the conversation back into your hands.  If you don't want people to see the tweets, simply delete them.  In one very large sense, I am no longer the one airing your dirty laundry.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Interestingly enough, all of this relates very well to what Shirky has written about publishing first and then filtering.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;100 points extra credit to Robin Ellis for not only bringing my attention to this, but for posting her comment &lt;a href='http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/quotes-questions-chapter-4-publish-then.html"' rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title='http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/quotes-questions-chapter-4-publish-then.html"'&gt;in an appropriate place&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Darren Draper</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 13 Jul 2008 00:24:40 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-874180</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I'm just going to say this...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If a grown person was reported to be chatting in a "chat room" with a 15 year old child how would others see it? let's just peel away all the layers of 'context' (because that's what happened anyway) and look at this.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;bottom line. this shouldn't have happened. period. the person in question may be precocious (and I use that word in its correct sense) an the "teachers" or adults may be generously engaging, but this is inappropriate.  i am not implying anything other than the fact that we shouldn't be engaging 15 year olds as adults, regardless of their 'proclaimed maturity' either via declaration or our perception based on simply their online presence.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;we still have a long way to go in finding maturity in our online communications. i've been online for over 12 years and it still baffles me to see such amazing mis-connects in people's verbal transactions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And arthus is a person, not some 'truman' for us to observe in a bubble or tweetsphere. this all leaves me feeling a little icky.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;respectfully,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;@dmx&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">@dmx</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 12 Jul 2008 10:06:25 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-873877</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I have responded to your comment over on my blog:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://myfla.ws/blog/2008/07/09/the-140-character-lesson/#comment-149986" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://myfla.ws/blog/2008/07/09/the-140-character-lesson/#comment-149986"&gt;http://myfla.ws/blog/2008/0...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Arthus</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 12 Jul 2008 08:55:08 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-872381</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Darren --&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Personally, I thought the post should never have taken place -- but unfortunately I waited too long to post -- and for that I am wrong.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What happens on twitter should stay on twitter.......&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Yes, in the past, I have taken some screen shots of some of my favorite posts - some keepers -- some "can you believe what they said" ....for me to keep....but once I took other people's thoughts and posted them for people to see, who were perhaps never part of the original conversation.....that is when I misused my power and over stepped my bounds.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What bothers me the most, in this case though, is that it seems that our network -- that used to be so strong -- is unraveling before our very eyes.  Where we used to stand strong and united, we are taking sides, posting quick responses instead of thinking for a bit, and forgetting common courtesy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I applaud you for taking down the twitter shots.....&lt;br&gt;I am anxious to see apologies from many and better behavior as well.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Perhaps I am naive, but I liked it better when we all got along and realized we were comrades united for one purpose.  Hopefully, that will return.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Jen&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">JenWagner</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 23:51:53 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-872340</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I'm reminded of the Robin Williams character -- the teacher, John Keating -- in "Dead Poets Society" while trying to make sense of this larger scenario and comment thread.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"Keating" was exceptional at inspiration.  In other words, his greatness lay in opening the door of curiosity for his otherwise traditional or naive students, giving them the support, confidence &amp;amp; nudge to step forward into potentially 'risky' decisions. I say 'risky' because the decisions required challenging a previous status quo to achieve a new outcome, one that often had social/life implications riding in the balance. They were 'risky' based on the student's previous life experiences or context as much as the soon-to-be future.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Key:  This was done regardless of whether the student's parents (etc) would be willing to support the aforementioned decision.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;On the other hand, Keating was decidedly lousy at giving those very same students 'cover' when the proverbial dung hit the fan.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In other words, while giving them the spark to tear out the textbook's pages, start an underground literature society, ignore a parent's steadfast rules, etc., he failed to take co-responsibility for what would happen 'the next day' when the truth become public.  Just as important, he failed to provide his students with the emotional/strategic wherewithal to handle the real world pressure that would follow the execution of such risky decisions, whether they were inherently in the right or wrong for doing so in the first place.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Slight tangent (with key punchline) coming:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I doubt many would argue that Keating was a bit of an underground revolutionary who conveniently used the 'guise of a classroom teacher to validate his own philosophical journey, perhaps even acting out (vicariously through his students) his own latent needs to rebel in a way that he was not able to do when he was their age in a similar setting.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;To that end, his character becomes morally suspect as a model for teachers everywhere, no matter how inspired his individual classroom/teaching lessons may have been (or how Hollywood set him up to be in the closing minutes).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This comes to mind because the collective WE (as formal/paid educators) run the risk of being "Keatings" far more than we may choose to recognize or admit.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I, for one, can't help but hold my hand up in recognition that I've been culpable in the past.  Where/how?  Well, any time I've chosen to write about, support, challenge, publicize, highlight, showcase at conferences, blog-link to, collaborate with, and/or criticize younger students (very much like Arthus or very different than Arthus) in the public forum of the edu-blogosphere (and beyond) -- students who are not technically/legally adults (i.e. 18 years of age) -- I've run the risk of being a "Keating" by subconsciously validating my own philosophical journey...and potentially at my students' (or 'kid' bloggers') expense.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Yes, me included.  Intentions notwithstanding.  I'll let others determine if the mirrored reflection(s) feel familiar to them as well.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Back to the original 'situation:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Every response to the aforementioned situation (as hinted at by Darren after it was edited, and further written about by Arthus on his own blog) is exceedingly human in nature.  'Reactions' and 'territory' of privilege or identity/age took over where intellectual content once was the center of things.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In my opinion, the now-exaggerated issues of age and responsibility -- heck, for that matter, the value of the original situation that sparked it all -- have far less long-term currency than the underlying issues of:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;a) Are WE as professional educators beginning to sincerely evaluate our unspoken intentions when we showcase individual pre-18 y.o. students in the blogosphere (etc) -- regardless of intention or project value -- as well as what unintentional outcomes are waiting for us as this pattern continues?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;b)  Are we so convinced that our instincts about making the educational world for our students transparent/collaborative based on 1)  legitimate and thought-out professional truths for the welfare of the students' academic success or 2) some sort of latent need to prove a philosophical element in our own hearts to the larger world?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;c) How are WE as professional educators facing the often conflictive desires 1) to give students in our buildings/classrooms a second chance when it comes to behaviors or reactions we would not necessarily accept from our own adult peers on campus or in the community vs. 2) calling out these same students out (who we frame as supposed 'peers' in the decidedly less F2F, less personal realm of the virtual network/world) for public and link-based criticism at the first (or second) sign of poor behavior?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;These are the most vital questions that linger -- for me, at least -- after having read through everything written about and commented on (at this time) re: this specific "conduct of communication/reaction" situation.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;i doubt that anyone involved will be the last to 'behave' in a similar manner as the edu-blogosphere continues to mature, regardless of age or topic.  Fortunately, decent damage-control and admission have occurred in the last day or so.  Arthus has done decent work accepting his own responsibility in his follow-up post.  Likewise, Darren has done decent work accepting his own responsibility by editing his original post and through this evolving comment thread.  This is, I can't help but think, simply a human situation with lots of 'wishing' that the clock could be turned back a bit on both sides.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My only concern now is that the moral of the story may remain focused on the individual personalities and specific expressions that were at the center of the original "communication" and "backlash"...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;...rather than being focused on the larger issue I wrote about above via the Keating example.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;After all, the last time I checked, if something goes wrong in my classroom -- or anywhere I am directly involved as the 'lead' teacher/adult -- where my students  make poor choices, I am the 1st to be held accountable.  Period.  End of story.  This is true when it comes to displaying evidence of maturity/experience, as well as restraint.  And it is further true in terms of being able to see the larger implications when the dust settles and the majority of us have to return to our careers/classrooms to 'lead' those that show up to 'learn'.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For what it's worth, I'm putting myself on "Keating watch" in my very own mirror, good intentions or not.  I'm hoping that the collective WE -- as trained, professional, paid educators -- do the same over time as frequently as we are capable of doing so.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Christian Long</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 23:41:28 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-871259</link><description>&lt;p&gt;7 hours later and not one person has said a thing. That's yet another sad commentary in and of itself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am sorry, Arthus. If someone had chosen to display my son's mistakes the way I displayed yours, I would be very upset - regardless of the intentions of that someone.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here's to brighter and future days.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Darren Draper</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 20:13:52 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-866145</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I think Clay is right: Arthus (and possibly Students 2.0) has become "collaterally damaged" in my attempt to question the actions of educators.  My methods may not have been ideal.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Thus, I'll ask the rest of you:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Should this post be deleted (such that bygones can be bygones)?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Darren Draper</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 12:33:47 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-866103</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I see your point, but also hope you see mine.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mine is not the point that Arthus should be scolded. Rather that WE should because of OUR behaviors - which is what you're doing now, to me, for my methods.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Irony - so think you can cut it with a knife.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Darren Draper</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 12:30:23 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-865940</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Now you're being disingenuous. I never said all experience is *equal*...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I'm sure you do have a unique perspective, but in the way the student council has a role in the life of a school - it *informs* professional practice, it does not dictate it. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Doug Belshaw</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 12:18:33 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-865854</link><description>&lt;p&gt;On the one hand, you claim the young should be protected because they don't know better; on the other, you leave it up to the young to decide for you whether your post shaming that young person should remain. Do you see the irony?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You did cherry-pick, Darren: Arthus has thousands of tweets. You picked a handful to broadcast beyond twitter. The least flattering ones.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I did read the entire comment thread, and I didn't say all adults in it piled on. I thought Ryan's and Bill Ferriter's (and others, I'm sure) were constructive.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And I said "poison the well" of a group blog by somehow linking it to the behavior of an individual.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I still don't get it. It's not emotional attachment to s2oh, but a philosophical difference. I pull kids out in the hall when they need a talking to. I don't put them on the worldwide web.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">5wils</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 12:12:25 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-864700</link><description>&lt;p&gt;With all due respect, I wonder if your tardiness to this conversation (and&lt;br&gt;perhaps failure to read the entire thread), coupled with your emotional ties&lt;br&gt;to S 2.0 haven't tainted your view here.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;First, it was never my intention to "cherry-pick [a select few of Arthus'&lt;br&gt;tweets] for a higher-profile sensationalistic post that goes on to poison&lt;br&gt;the Students 2.0". My intention has always been to question our behavior, as&lt;br&gt;teachers, in bringing students into the spotlight using social tools that we&lt;br&gt;so freely promote. Look a the little text that I actually wrote in the post,&lt;br&gt;what did I question?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ryan Bretag's comment here unquestionably hit the nail on the head - add my&lt;br&gt;concern about the fame and pressure that blogging and other exposures have&lt;br&gt;brought to Arthus, and you've got the message I was trying to broadcast.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Perhaps I shouldn't have picked on Arthus specifically, perhaps I shouldn't&lt;br&gt;have spotlighted S 2.0 - in hindsight I may have done things differently.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But in the end, I think we've come a long way here and that my relationship&lt;br&gt;with Arthus has actually *improved* as a result of this interaction.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Arthus, am I wrong? Again, simply say the word and this post is toast.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Darren Draper</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 10:44:10 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-863288</link><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Come over here, babe&lt;br&gt;It ain’t that bad&lt;br&gt;I don’t claim to understand&lt;br&gt;The troubles that you’ve had.&lt;br&gt;Let the dogs you say they fed you to&lt;br&gt;Lay their muzzles in your lap,&lt;br&gt;And the lions that they led you to&lt;br&gt;Lie down and take a nap.&lt;br&gt;The ones you fear are wind and air,&lt;br&gt;And I love you without measure&lt;br&gt;It seems we can be happy now&lt;br&gt;Be it better late than never....&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;--Nick Cave, "Straight to You" (from the And No More Shall We Part cd)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I don't know how to say this tactfully, but I'll try:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If Arthus were an adult who happened to have what I fondly call "a case of ass" for a short spell online - and I can think of several high profile adult edubloggers who have done so in the past few months (myself included), and in the past two days, in fact (and Darren, some of your more angry posts before NECC might fit into this category, mightn't they?) - would you so comfortably single that peer out for a lecture under the public spotlight?  Am I right that the answer is probably "no"?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If I am, doesn't this post qualify as an example of ageism that irks Arthus so much? (This is not to excuse Arthus' bad mood, which is a different issue, and one that he resolved well enough himself - and in a fashion many adults haven't equaled after the aforementioned lapses of their own over the past few months)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If I had decided to write a post spotlighting my disapproval of another person's bad mood and irascible behavior, when I wasn't really a principal in it, how close have I come to something in the neighborhoods of sensationalism or gossip?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Further, I'd argue Arthus was a high-profile personality before Students 2.0, not because of it (he came onto my radar from the Steve Hargadon interview/Doug Belshaw catfight) - and that Arthus' accomplishments as a web designer, programmer, education thinker, doer, presenter, and writer justify that profile, bad days notwithstanding.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And I'd argue that Arthus has shown he's mature enough to take care of himself and resolve his own conflicts, as his post about all of this shows.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So I guess, in short, I question the impulse to frame this event in the way it's been framed, and to encourage the kind of piling on that has happened in this comment thread. It's too close to stirring the pot and humiliating an individual for my comfort (mind you - had Arthus attacked someone in a blog post, which is closer to a permanent "big footprint" than a transitory tweet, and had the victim of that attack responded with a post defending him/herself and "counter-attacking," that's a different and more understandable thing than a third party jumping into transitory tweet fray).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I'm sure Arthus has several thousand tweets on twitter. The odds of anybody combing through that history to find a few tweets with a case of ass are negligible.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But your post highlighting all of this, hyperlinking to Students 2.0 (as if it's guilty by association, and a well deserving of poison?) and to Arthus, in a post that's nothing but a publicizing of tweets and a variation of "OMG!" (while oddly taking credit for "creating" Arthus, who is one of the most self-created teens any of us will ever know) - that increases the odds of this little teapot tempest being more visible.  I don't get how this post is worth the cost to those you linked to.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And I don't think the framing, to repeat, is as fair as it could be: adults get ass too. A more interesting question is:  Why is the frequency of ass increasing in the community generally?  And why are we magnifying it by making it "news" by blogging about it, a la some tabloid journal or Fox News?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;To me, a more interesting frame - one I was thinking about today before discovering this brouhaha - is online behavior generally, and specifically the psychology involving the &lt;i&gt;timing&lt;/i&gt; of our online communications.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I was thinking, in this connection, of my own habit of waking up, pouring my first coffee, and instantly powering on to check email - which often means receiving comments to my own blog posts.  What I've noticed recently is that I'm far more likely to be snarky over comments that rub me the wrong way (they read my post sloppily and put words in my mouth, or their tone was irritating, whatever), &lt;i&gt;and&lt;/i&gt; to decide to express that snarkiness in a reply to their comment, when I've just woken up. And I'm pretty much resolved to change that habit so my moods - grumpy morning person, grumpy late night person - don't get the best of my judgment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Before closing, I also don't get the "we let him into Twitter" comment somewhere above. Twitter's open. It's not ours, and there's no age limit.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If it's a community, then as adults we should do what good adults always do in any community, real or virtual, when a youth needs some guidance: give it to them gently, quietly, off to the side - not pull them into the spotlight and chastise them publicly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sorry to come off like this, Darren, but I just don't get this one.  For the second time in commenting on your blog, I'll quote a good old song's advice: "Whisper words of wisdom: Let it be."&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">5wils</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 08:01:18 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-862473</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Students have a role to play the blogosphere as well. We are the ones being educated and thus we have a unique perspective upon the dialogue.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;By your logic, the oldest man alive should be the President.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Arthus</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 03:31:56 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-859554</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Ah yes, the old 'top result on Google's define: function' trick. Perhaps this demonstrates there's never just one 'objective' definition. To me, ageism is stereotyping someone based on their age. In the end it's *you* who have acted in accordance with a stereotype, Arthus. ;-)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I was actually impressed by your "I'm sorry" blog post (&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href="http://myfla.ws/blog/2008/07/09/the-140-character-lesson)" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://myfla.ws/blog/2008/07/09/the-140-character-lesson)"&gt;http://myfla.ws/blog/2008/0...&lt;/a&gt; - very mature writing for a teenager. Still, what you class as 'ageist' is actually my referring to the experience I've gathered in the 13 years of life I've had more than you. Qualifications aren't everything, nor is length of service,&lt;br&gt;but to pretend that you're playing a full role in the edublogosphere would be to distort reality. I've read you more than once refer to the fact that you're 'only 14'. You can't have it both ways.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I've no doubt you're a gifted student - you've proved that. What you need to learn is that intelligence is only *one* of the required attributes in life. Goodness knows I'm still learning...&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Doug Belshaw</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 18:41:06 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-859388</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Ageism: The assumption that a person's age should determine their social status and their roles in society.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I fail to see how this is *not* an example of ageism. Based purely upon my age, you seem to assume I have no valid opinion and should stop playing in a "grown-up's world."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Since we're slinging insults, maybe I should be the one to say: get out of *my* digital world, old man. :P&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Arthus</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 18:20:25 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-854156</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Arthus,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I'm not sure you understand what 'ageism' actually is. I would have similar&lt;br&gt;issues with someone my own age who hadn't got a degree, gone through teacher&lt;br&gt;training and done any teaching themselves. You've got the engine, just not&lt;br&gt;the rudder of experience...&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Doug Belshaw</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 09:58:14 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-854129</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I really like this thought and have been having a similar one for some time.  For example, if we require all our students to keep a blog, how is that any different from handing out 20 copies of the smae worksheet.  In our rush to overhaul our classroom for the 21st Centruy I think there is a chance we are going to trip over some of the same holes we have tripped over for years.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">mrkimmi</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 09:54:52 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-854021</link><description>&lt;p&gt;But if you buy a USAToday and the "friend" tells you that the New York times is better, do you lash out at them?  To me, learning socially acceptable behavior has to happen at some point, and it can't be in front of a computer.  Working on a computer is isolating for the most part, just you staring at a screen.  Yes, you can converse with others, but there is no real consequence for what you do or say, at least not one that sticks around after you get off the computer.  Would Arthus say these things if they were all in a coffee shop?  I don't think so.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">mrkimmi</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 09:43:19 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-853617</link><description>&lt;p&gt;So the tools that allow for experimentation/failure are often being used as a final assess for both eduation and social adjustment.  That is an interesting line of thought.  We are too quick to make it the final product aren't we?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This absolutely needs explored. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Ken Pruitt</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 08:51:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-853126</link><description>&lt;p&gt;First, many thanks to @arthus for being willing to allow this conversation to go on!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Arthus, whether or not you are the "poster boy" for 21st Century learning, you're clearly doing all of education a huge service by allowing a group of passionate teachers and thinkers to use your development---both as a kid and as a kid in a digital, open, participatory world---as a bit for reflection about what is happening in our classrooms and in our schools.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;That's huge.  Period.  We owe you one.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As far as the strand of conversation from Twitter goes, I think the only lesson I'm going to take away is that all humans----but particularly the students that we engage in ongoing digital conversations---need to be taught the difference between competitive and collaborative dialogue.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When I think about any conversation that I have in the blogosphere/Twitterverse, I think of it as collaborative.  I assume that everyone I'm interacting with has good intentions and that we're all learning together.  Operating from that assumption changes the way that I respond to anyone----whether it be in a Tweet or in a blog comment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And collaborative dialogue has an entirely different language than competitive dialogue does.  There are more questions asked in collaborative dialogue.  Challenges happen---but from the lens of "How can we learn more about this together so we can come up with a new understanding for both of us?" rather than "How can I show everyone that my ideas are right?  What evidence can I use to support my thinking or to debunk my opponent?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Our world tends to model competitive dialogue all the time.  We're surrounded by companies fighting for market share, by politicians fighting for votes, by sports stars and musicians fighting for attention.  We see opponents everywhere----instead of seeing allies.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;That emphasis on competitive dialogue isn't a result of participatory media----check out the ads in the newspaper or the signs hanging in the local pizza shop window.  Competitive dialogue has been around for a whole lot longer than blogs and Twitter.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The change that I think we need to see in our classrooms and communities is a new emphasis on helping our students----and our neighbors, colleagues and friends---to recognize the appropriate times for competitive and collaborative dialogue----and then to teach the skills for engaging in both to everyone.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Does this make any sense?&lt;br&gt;Bill Ferriter&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">plugusin</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 07:02:19 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-852922</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Interesting...I skimmed this post from the bottom up and immediately assumed that Arthus was an older person complaining about the ageism which occurs when the young dismiss the ideas of the 'old'. ( I assumed his avatar was satirical and a product of this!)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Upon further reading, when I realised my mistake, I recognised my 17 year old son, who doesn't like to be "English teachered" (his words).  Essentially this means he doesn't like having  his thinking challenged or know how to respond to the many and varied suggestions I make relating to his view of the world.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;People, (young, old, academic, whatever) need to have their ideas and beliefs questioned and challenged.  It is a good thing.  It forces them to reflect, analyse and evaluate.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Good ideas should survive close scrutiny.  Coincidentally, this is something that teachers are trained to encourage (Go figure!)  However, if the most we can do to support our ideas is hurl abuse at those questioning and challenging them, or dismiss them outright...well, it doesn't inspire a lot confidence or hold much weight in my view.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Julie</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 05:59:20 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-851713</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I have responded over on my blog. &lt;a href="http://myfla.ws/blog/2008/07/09/the-140-character-lesson/" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://myfla.ws/blog/2008/07/09/the-140-character-lesson/"&gt;http://myfla.ws/blog/2008/0...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Arthus</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 00:07:58 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Possible Price of Being A Student 2.0</title><link>http://drapestakes.blogspot.com/2008/07/possible-price-of-being-student-20.html#comment-851473</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I feel as if I should weigh in on this discussion. Let me say first that I have always found my interactions with Arthus, whether online on in person at EduCon, to be engaging and thoughtful. The chat I had with Arthus on Twitter was brief. After a few tweets, it was obvious that the conversation wasn't going to go any further.  That's Twitter. The 140 characters of Twitter requires concise, not in-depth commentary. And most tweets on Twitter do not naturally flow into a longer conversation. If we wanted to further explore the topic, we could have continued the conversation through Skype.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Yes, the tone of the comments bothered me- but I would be bothered no matter who it was or what age they were. I do not care to continue a discussion if my ideas are not being given common consideration. And that is our choice on Twitter. We can choose how we react and respond- to continue to tweet and to continue to follow or not. I would hope that none of us would be judged by one volley of tweets. Should it continue repeatedly, my choice would be simple.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But what stands out for me is how the significance of the context of a conversation and background of the speakers is critical in understanding any communication. In reviewing the tweets and comments, it is clear that I misunderstood the underlying point Arthus was making about TweetDeck and web development. My comments took the discussion on a different path, on one about learning. The two ideas brushed past each other, but never connected.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So what have we learned from all this?  How is Twitter different from real conversations? If we are going to attempt to have conversations on Twitter, what do we need to do differently to assure that what we say is understood? Do we begin to ask clarifying questions? Do we need to restate what we think we understood? Or do we accept that Twitter has its shortcomings and not take it too seriously?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Linda Nitsche</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 23:26:17 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>